It is my firm belief, that no matter what your circumstances, there is always something to be grateful for.
I'm grateful that:
* We recognized that Aiden's speech was delayed at 18 months old, and we got help right away. He has been in speech therapy ever since, and made good progress.
*I gave up money to be home with my children as much as possible. I've met some incredible mommys who have helped me grow as a mother and friend. I've never missed a single childhood milestone, and the kids and I get to go on many adventures together. I've found happiness through centering my life around my children--not my career. I'm grateful for the friends Aiden and I made, and continue to make, along the way!
*Aiden has many strengths. His motor skills are incredible. He could walk a balance beam at 2 years old and continues to run a whole mile without stopping. I believe in the power of physical activity, and I'm grateful we can run together!
*While some children with autism don't want to be touched, Aiden is the opposite. He thrives on sensory input. He is a very loving, sweet child. He will give hugs and kisses, and say, "it is ok" to his little brother. I cherish those moments. I'm grateful he lets me cuddle. :)
*We have Austin. Although we have an extreme lack of girls in our extended family, I'm grateful Aiden has a little brother who helps him learn to interact, talk, and play each day.
*We have a very supportive family who gives this mommy a break when she needs one, and loves Aiden nearly as much as I do!
*I believe in the power of faith, and I'm grateful to know that God has a plan for Aiden and our family.
After telling someone that I had a child with autism, someone once said to me, "You are lucky. You have been chosen to experience sacrificial love." That's a unique way to look at it. Wish I had heard this earlier. I pass it on to you to take whatever meaning it has for you. I will say prayers for you and your family as I do for mine...
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