Reflections of 2016

How different each passing year is....

Aiden is going to be 9 next year.  That means I've been a mother for almost 9 years!  Motherhood has proven to me that life doesn't get easier, it just changes.  I'm almost to the end of the crib/infant carrier/diaper stage of the life that I've chosen, and it feels good and right.  This year has been a year of sleep and much needed time to reflect on the challenges we have faced--and most importantly--those we have overcome.  

Abe--is in his 4th year of teaching.  When he isn't grading papers, he is busy fixing our home.  This year it was the roof, the bathroom floor, and walls.  Next year it will be new paint and a new kitchen floor.  After 11 years in this home, we hope to move in the Spring to start fresh and new.  

Marian--with her new found time, she prayed hard for the next steps in her personal journey, and the answer to that was to work on personal growth.  In doing so, I've found a program that is helping me build my fitness and nutrition business to what I've always dreamed it would be.  A place for women to go to feel loved, inspired, and to learn how to take care of themselves with fitness and nutrition.  In 2017, that dream will come true.  :)

Aiden--this is the year of communication for Aiden.  He is starting to talk about what goes on at school and how he feels about it.  We've had several moments at school this year that have left Aiden frustrated/upset with his classmates.  It is my understanding that when accidents happen, Aiden thinks he is being "bullied" and he shuts down.  From the teacher's perspective, these are completely innocent "happenings"; however, they seem to be happening often, so I'm not sure how to move forward with that (if at all).  His IEP meeting is coming up soon.   We were receiving therapy 2 days a week (the lowest we've ever had), but insurance has eliminated that option at this time.  After 3 years of full-time therapy, it kind of feels like a relief.  However, Aiden continues to struggle with peer relationships and academics as well as sensory concerns related to food.  This time, I leave it in Heavenly Father's hands.  I've fought the fight.  Now I give it to God.  I love and support my son the best I know how, and that feels like enough at this time.

Austin--has a gift for reading chapter books in 1st grade and blasting through a set of math flash cards without a problem.  He struggles with "gaming" a little too much and a strong-willed spirit/attitude that I'm not sure how to redirect.  I hope that he learns the importance of respect, hard work, and humility.  Given my experiences in life, I know our Heavenly Father will put things in place to teach him these things.

Ashton--loves to play with his brothers, to color, and to play games on the computer.  His little personality is so different from the other boys.  It is hard to believe he will enter Kindergarten next year!

Avery--seems so much older than 2!  He is one smart cookie who loves to eat, watch movies, and enjoys playing in the snow! He seems ready to potty train, but this mommy isn't looking forward to that "adventure".  Even though, being diaper free would be AWESOME for the first time in 9 years!  WHOOP!

High Hopes for 2017!  Hopefully a new home, a fresh start, and some darn good memories!