We are 1 month into homeschooling Aiden virtually, and I feel validated in our decision. After Aiden tested at a 1st grade level, I once again asked if we could do 3rd-grade material (Aiden is now in 4th grade). This time, there was no fight. Aiden immediately went to 3rd-grade material, and I can't tell you how much pressure that took off my shoulders. Suddenly, this seems possible to balance it all!
Aiden is now thriving again because the material is familiar and more appropriate.
Fight for your kids. YOU know what is best. I was told last year, "the research says that is not in his best interest to hold him back". I call BS. My child is not a statistic. I don't care what the research says. I care about what is going to make Aiden succeed. I want him to gain confidence and not get frustrated with learning. He was not ready for 4th grade. I knew it, and our Heavenly Father knew it.
I'm so grateful I listened!